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Confessions

29 Jan

A year of learning to let go

You know those people whose lives seem effortless? On the surface (social media), they appear to have everything going for them: good health, a great career, a respectable bank account, and a happy family. I reckon we’re starting to be woke enough to know that, of course, the internet version of ourselves is not a good measure of testing reality. But still, what is it like to feel really put together? You know, I’m talking about solid, unflappable folk. The Type A humans of the world. I think many of us...

29 Jan

Solo female travel in your thirties? It’s so much better than you think

As the calendar ticked over in mid-May and my 36th birthday rolled around, I couldn’t help but begin reflecting on some of those scary, big questions no one really wants to face. Starting with the obvious – do I want kids? A flexible no. Do I want to date? It’s hard to date when you hate men. Do I want to stay in Wānaka long term? Maybe. When and where would I buy a house one day? Note to self – ramp up saving for a house. It’s so easy for...